Moving on is the most difficult thing in the world.Having any kind of relationship with an ex is complicated – really, really complicated. There are so many emotions running around and you want to desperately get back with your ex or just be friends with them. For any sake you should try to keep your word vomit minimum. Since words cant be taken back and it only make your situations worse.
So here are few things which you should never ever say to your exes.
I Love You
You might still love them as , you’ve been in a real relationship with them, but you can’t tell them. Don’t ever tell your ex you still love them, even if you want nothing else but to be with them. Make yourself strong and help yourself get over them. You’ve got to be stronger than this and move on.
Let’s Hang Out
Don’t ever ask your ex to hang out with you. Understand the fact that it’s over and you can’t be casual friends after all the things you’ve been through together. No matter how much you want to see them, don’t ask them to meet. It will hurt you when you cant be all romantic as cute as you used to be. You need distance and you need time apart.
We understand that you want to make things right but saying sorry is not gonna help you. This will just make scenario difficult as you both will end up getting confused.More over they will feel more superior and start to rule over you n toss you back and forth.The more you say sorry, the more you’re hurting yourself in the end.
I Hate You
You will be dying to say this to them but this phrase is not so useful either.It shows that you still think about them or cant stop thinking about them. You should just avoid talking to them and move on with life. Be as away from them as possible, Don’t show any sign of care.
Let’s Be Friends
Trust me when i say this, you can never be “just friends” with you exes because you have spent so many beautiful memories with them and it will be hard for you to acknowledge them as your friend. It’s simply impossible. If you start being friends with your ex, a point will come where one of you will start crying. Just avoid it.
I will kill myself if you will not give me a second chance
It shows how desperate you are to get back with them.It’s like you’re trying to cling onto something, and it just makes the whole situation awkward.This dramatic line is the sign of desperation. So please don’t ever say that to them.
I Miss You
You can say this line once or twice but dont this often.Ofcourse you miss them and they are always on your mind but reminding them of how much you miss them is a wrong step and they will start to over rule your emotion. You will be the one who will end up getting hurt. Better to keep your feelings hidden.
I really hope you die.
Opps!! This is really awful thing to say to anybody.Well this displays negative side of your charming attitude and they will think that you are doing this to seek attention which is right indeed.
How is your new flame?
If they have moved on in their life and has got partner don’t try to be sweet and ask about them or their related things.You look like you’re still hung up on him.It makes you look jealous and bitter.Bite your tongue and move on.
It never easy to overcome when the relationship that you have admired for such a long time goes in vain. It’s like experiencing a small death; part of you loses all the hope. It’s okay to grief and feel miserable for a while but if you lingering on this fact for a long time then you should seriously get over it. I know it’s hard to forget everything and move on with life but trust me on this if you feel determined enough to get over this guy, you will surely succeed .Just follow a simple rules and you will survive break up fever.
# Rule 1
Don’t Ignore Your Feelings
It’s ok to feel sad, angry, exhausted, frustrated and confused. Don’t hide your feelings. If u feels like crying, cry your heart out. It will make you feel better at the end. Give yourself time to heal and don’t cry alone lean a shoulder.
# Rule 2
Be Contact less
It clearly means no calling, texting, tweeting and other kind of communication. It also means unfriend him or even better block him.
# Rule 3
Be With Friends
Don’t try to handle this situation alone. Talk to friend, hangout with them, party with them and remember you should be happy without him.
# Rule 4
Develop some hobbies
This might be a perfect time to join some cooking classes that you wanted from long time ago.develop some hobbies to keep your brain occupied.
# Rule 5
Take care Of Yourself
I know you feel miserable right now and want to throw your cosmetic out of your window but looking good and taking care of yourself boost your confidence level. Eat good foods, do exercise and so on.
# Rule 6
Avoid alcohol or drugs
It’s a big NO NO. When you’re in the middle of a breakup, you may be tempted to do anything to relieve your feelings of pain and loneliness. But using alcohol, drugs, or food as an escape is unhealthy and destructive in the long run. It’s essential to find healthier ways of coping with painful feelings.
# Rule 7
This will divert your mind and you naturally start to think positive in your life.Enjoy your coming days with friends or families
Stay positive in your life. Don’t lose hope just because you have fallen for wrong guy.
Restore your Social life
Keep yourself surrounded by happy people. You will start loving yourself. Talk to people and get to know each other well.
# Rule 10
Yes, start loving yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Some time bad things happen to Good people.