Love is a complicated matter, but the reasons why men fall in love with a woman aren’t as deep as one might think. The complaints are plenty: men only care about looks, men want young women, men want this, men want that. The facts, on the other hand, seem to be scarce. The truth always comes out, but only when you’re open to it.
Men aren’t as complicated as women might think. Men want to fall in love with a woman they can share thoughts with, make memories with, and enjoy life with—someone fun, lively, and smart. Men want someone confident, but kind at heart—someone who can stand her ground, but not be ruthless.
These are the qualities that every woman should aspire to—not only for men, but for themselves, to be healthy and happy.
The first thing man notice about you is your personality. So give more emphasis on your looks. You dont have to put tons of make up and expensive clothes. Just try to make best of you.To be young means being able to be silly, cute, and entertaining. It means being able to enjoy life, and laugh. Live and let live. Being young on the inside is a joy not only for you, but for the man that gets to see you happy day in and day out.Being yourself is key to attraction to a good guy.
Similar interests are a given, of course. If a man finds a woman with similar interests, he finds himself being able to teach her more about the subjects, and learn a bit from her, as well. Common ground makes for entertaining conversation, and makes it so you can both share interests and make lasting memories.
Sex and sexuality is a very important part adult of life. It’s an important part of attraction as well. Different people possess different kinds of sexuality. But, a woman on the other end of that spectrum can attract a man as well. Women who have a subtle, low key sexuality will more than likely attract the kind of man that loves the hint of sex appeal more than an a bolder form sexiness.Being beautiful is undoubtedly important, but it isn’t everything. A girl who is not so good-looking still can have many guys falling for her. The secret to attracting guys is not just being beautiful, as it definitely requires more than that.
Praise and entertainment go hand in hand. Imagine the scenario of hanging out with your man, having fun with a hobby you mutually enjoy, and then ruining it by overlooking every attempt he makes at impressing you. Or imagine praising him for things, but sitting there, bored, so the praise seems out of place. It doesn’t work. Praising your man is important, to make him feel appreciated, but it should always be genuine. This way, when you praise him, he’ll trust what you say.
Be versatile, with many sides to explore. Everyone has more than one side to them. Serious, friendly, cautious, funny, intellectual, artistic, childish, etc. Letting him see these sides means he gets to be surprised by something new every day, and sees you as the magical being you are—always stunning, always intriguing.
Your dress sense
Boys love women who are well-groomed, so take advantage of this. Girls often are confused about what to wear on their date so that their guy won’t be able to resist praising them. Wear something that is tasteful and looks great on you whenever he is around. A girl with a good dress sense knows how to look beautiful, as well as casual.
A tempting fragrance
Let your fragrance work for you when you say goodbye to him with a hug. Guys love it when their girl smells great. Spray the perfume on your wrists, around the neck, behind the ears and under the collarbone to ensure your fragrance lasts.
You can wear different fragrances on different occasions. Buy a variety of perfumes and see which works best for you.
High emotional IQ (EQ)
Being a girl, it is often expected that you will have deep emotions. That doesn’t at all mean that you fill your eyes with tears every time you hear a sad story, though. A woman with a high emotional IQ (also known as EQ) can encourage and inspire her man whenever he needs motivation. She will say the right things at the right time, instead of creating unnecessary drama.
Smile a lot
Guys go crazy for a girl’s smile. Your smile should be genuine and sweet. Don’t force a smile- otherwise, your guy may think of you as a freak. Also, when you are with him, give him all your attention and laugh at his jokes. Show him that you are happy with him. He will do the rest.
A naughty girl can easily turn on a guy. Sitting very close to him can sometimes work in your favor. Learn how to tease a guy in a not-so-obvious manner. Non-sexual touches send the message: “I love being with you, and I like you.”
Don’t be judgmental
If you don’t like something about your crush, you can share your honest opinion with him. At the same time, don’t insult him for it and don’t make an issue of it. Having an opinion is good but being rude or negative about it is not appreciated.
You should be passionate about something
Having a hobby and being passionate about it impresses guys. Girls with hobbies such as surfing, golfing, and driving really make men crazy for them. The common belief that says ‘men cultivate hobbies, women cultivate relationships’ is not true anymore.
Be kind to others
Needless to say, this is very important. Talk politely to everyone and be warm to others. This is important not just for impressing your guy, but also for the sake of humanity.
Positivity and sense of humor
One of the most important things in any relationship, romantic or otherwise, is the ability to have a great time and have a good laugh. Taking care of your emotional hygiene and good mood should be your priority. Only then you can take life positive, light, and with a fair dose of humor.
Getting along with my friends
A friend once told me an old Chinese saying of a man that has a wife who gets along with his friends will have a long and pleasant life. Well, I have a feeling that my friend might be lying about there being an actual saying; however, I have to say that it really is a beautiful thing to be with a woman who can get along with your buddies and just be ‘one of the guys’ when she wants to.
I don’t know about you, but I like being around people who are happy to be themselves. You see, it’s not just women who respond powerfully to a confident partner, I love being with a woman who stands up for herself and what she believes in; as long as it’s not an opinion against my sports team or favorite band. Ha! Just kidding. I would never date a girl who didn’t love Iron Maiden.