It never easy to overcome when the relationship that you have admired for such a long time goes in vain. It’s like experiencing a small death; part of you loses all the hope. It’s okay to grief and feel miserable for a while but if you lingering on this fact for a long time then you should seriously get over it. I know it’s hard to forget everything and move on with life but trust me on this if you feel determined enough to get over this guy, you will surely succeed .Just follow a simple rules and you will survive break up fever.
# Rule 1
Don’t Ignore Your Feelings
It’s ok to feel sad, angry, exhausted, frustrated and confused. Don’t hide your feelings. If u feels like crying, cry your heart out. It will make you feel better at the end. Give yourself time to heal and don’t cry alone lean a shoulder.
# Rule 2
Be Contact less
It clearly means no calling, texting, tweeting and other kind of communication. It also means unfriend him or even better block him.
# Rule 3
Be With Friends
Don’t try to handle this situation alone. Talk to friend, hangout with them, party with them and remember you should be happy without him.
# Rule 4
Develop some hobbies
This might be a perfect time to join some cooking classes that you wanted from long time ago.develop some hobbies to keep your brain occupied.
# Rule 5
Take care Of Yourself
I know you feel miserable right now and want to throw your cosmetic out of your window but looking good and taking care of yourself boost your confidence level. Eat good foods, do exercise and so on.
# Rule 6
Avoid alcohol or drugs
It’s a big NO NO. When you’re in the middle of a breakup, you may be tempted to do anything to relieve your feelings of pain and loneliness. But using alcohol, drugs, or food as an escape is unhealthy and destructive in the long run. It’s essential to find healthier ways of coping with painful feelings.
# Rule 7
This will divert your mind and you naturally start to think positive in your life.Enjoy your coming days with friends or families
Stay positive in your life. Don’t lose hope just because you have fallen for wrong guy.
Restore your Social life
Keep yourself surrounded by happy people. You will start loving yourself. Talk to people and get to know each other well.
# Rule 10
Yes, start loving yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Some time bad things happen to Good people.